Ten Things Brides Forget To Do After Wedding Ceremony

The wedding as described in John Keats’s words, “Two souls but a single thought; two hearts that beat as one” is a blissful event that weaves two souls in a rug of fate. With the exchange of gold wedding bands or diamond eternity bands, matrimony binds two individuals in a sturdy bond of love as promised in the wedding vows “to hold, love and cherish forever”. When the opportune moment of longed fantasy arrives, the avid desire to have everything to absolute perfection consumes the mind, thus straining the bride…in short bridal jitters. Evidently, your stomach must be in knots…heart throbbing…before the big day, so just take a deep breath and calm your nerves, and focus on the love that you two share, that will offer you the courage to accomplish all tasks. Do you remember movie 27 dresses, depicting the various details that must be taken care of in order to have the perfect fairytale nuptial? Of course in the movie, there was Jane Nichols (Katherine Heigl) to take care of all last minute details but certainly every bride cannot have a Jane Nichols to look after every particular. So, plan everything earlier and distribute the tasks to some responsible individuals or give your wedding planner a call and check out the last minute details beforehand because you just need to look beatific on that day while walking down the aisle, not a frowning maiden. Well, there is also a checklist to be followed after the knot has been tied, so the honeymoon would not be spent in pondering over ifs... and buts… Bon Voyage: The passport, identity proofs and other requirements for the honeymoon trip should be taken first or else there won’t be honeymoon at all. Ensure that itinerary and maps are also included in that list or else the trip may become replica of Sarah (Brittany Murphy) and Tom’s (Ashton Kutcher) honeymoon in Just Married, which is the least sought scenario. Hence, have a safe and delightful trip by taking all the essentials with you. Listen To Call Of Nature: Mostly after wedding, there will be clicks awaiting you followed by toasts, cake cutting and so on, so a trip to the ladies room is imminent...better to accept the help of one of the bridesmaids if required. You can enjoy rest of the day with ease then without any discomfort. Say Cheese: Wedding pictures carry the sweet essence of the wedding day and a nostalgic smile with misty eyes will welcome these photos each time you go through them and every bride wants to look her best on those pictures. So here is the tip, just after wedding reapply a little makeup to trap your besotting look, particularly, retouch your lipstick, and eye makeup, as they are highly focused in a snapshot. Wear both diamond engagement ring and wedding bands while posing for the photos. Also, arrange your clothes properly and get set for a bunch of splendid photos with a bright smile. Switch To Comfort: Before the highly anticipated first dance and the meetings with the guest, replace your stilettos with some comfortable shoes so that you will not be complaining about sore feet on your wedding night. And also then you can dance as much as you want to the enchanting tune of The Power of Love by Celine Dion. Overnight Bag: Do not forget to pack your overnight bag with all the essentials including toiletries. Every woman fantasizes to be at best at this most special night. So lady it is the time to pamper yourself before the precious moment, hence enclose all the requirements in your list of items. One of the bridesmaids may transport the bag in its destined place. Grab A Bite: “No man can worship or love his neighbor in empty stomach” and here you are a lady with your nerves in knots…so how can you love your husband being hungry? So it is very essential that you satiate your hunger and eat some light food so you will not feel over stuffed. After consuming light food, you can enjoy the rest of the day without feeling nauseous. Express Your Gratification: The fact is, in order to let you have the wedding of your dreams, many individuals must have played prominent roles and now it is your turn to show your heartfelt gratitude to them for their help and support. You can share small gifts with them as a token of your appreciation for their help or send them thank you notes. Along with friends and everyone, don’t forget to thank your folks as well. Treasure Your Treasure: Since childhood, we come across many objects with which an emotional attachment is established due to some relevant memories. Those items with sentimental value are the real treasure that provides courage and assurance during all phases of life, so don’t forget to take your true wealth with you. Safe Exit: The thought of checking the doors or keeping the precious items locked safely often evaporates from mind before leaving for the honeymoon in all that excitement. But, its consequences may turn pretty grave, so before setting out for that happy journey, double check the doors and also make sure that all the expensive items are either in bank or behind the number system lock. Time For Rendezvous: Wedding is the celebration of two people truly in love and so you have to share some invaluable moments with your husband alone. Those moments will be the best moments that you will recollect later. Lift your attention from all the details that have been straining you and just spent some gleeful moments together and get arrested in the passion and love you have for each other and let the meaning of wedding vows slip deep inside you two. Marriage is not just a jubilation to be shared with friends and other acquaintances; it is rather the unification of two souls so much in love that they do not wish to stay apart. So, just relax and enjoy the big day instead of being all jittery and shaky while it is the most awaited moment of your life when you say “I do” with the wedding ring set as the holder of that promise. After wedding also, along with all these minor details don’t forget to indulge to the perks of being a married woman.