How To Get Your Boyfriend To Propose You With An Engagement Ring?
June 26, 2017, Alyssa Bruni
In this busy practical world, wedding is like a small piece of fairytale that every girl desires to write in her own version. And now that you have met the person of your dreams, you can’t wait to get married and start your years of happily ever after as soon as possible, isn’t it? But, for your partner, the story seems to be a little different, although you are enthusiastically waiting for the ring, he hasn’t yet come around to ask you on one knee with a big diamond engagement ring in hand, which probably led you to wonder over so many probabilities that your head is about to explode. Why hasn’t he asked me yet? Is he scared? Doesn’t he feel that way about me? Stop…stop right there, don’t contemplate too much. It’s simply maybe that he is terrified of being rejected and so you just need to assure him in a subtle way that you are ready to take the next very big step. Here are a few tricks that you can apply to give the right nudge which will lead him directly to the aisle.
Be True And Frank
There is nothing that works better than an honest conversation with your partner. It is not possible to bluntly say “I am ready to get married, now ask me already”, so simply let him know how much you love and look forward to spend every single day laughing, travelling, and enjoying life with him. You can also bring up the details of a recent marriage you have attended and thus casually share your thoughts and viewpoints about marriage, thus, he will get an idea that you are not opposed to the idea of marriage, in fact you are looking forward to it.
Discussion on Future
Let him know how you feel about kids and family and how you anticipate building your own home filled with lovely children someday. Discuss your future plans with him and ask about his plans as well. Via all these discussions, you can get a peek into his thoughts. It will give him a hint about your wishes and on the other hand you will also be aware of his outlook on all these.
Peek Into Social Media Bridal Pages
If you leave a few tabs on bridal news, bridal jewelry or bridal decorations open in his laptop, then of course, he is bound to go through all those pages, after which, he will be able to grasp a hint about your expectations from him.
Take 0n your Engagement Rings
Little by little you can reach out to him by starting chat on engagement ring patterns and diamond shapes. You can mention an engagement ring you admire the most and then point out the details that you like about the ring and also what was the set back about the same ring. Thus, if he were confused earlier about what style of ring he should pick up for you, after this discussion, doubt will be completely out. And if he were not thinking about a wedding, then it will make him aware of your intentions and bend him towards it.
Planned Outings With Married Couples
Sometimes the repressed memories of fights and divorce between parents leave a disturbing mark in the tender minds of the children during childhood. This may lead to a kind of phobia for marriages. On such cases, take your partner on double dates or social gatherings with married couples who are blessedly happy with each other. This may help in reducing the fear and he will eventually yearn to have that kind of happy life with you. But, if your partner is seriously scarred with such traumatic experiences, you can also take help of a good counselor.
Borrow Help From A Friend
You can urge a trusted friend of yours to have a little chat with him and can casually suggest marriage as the two of you make a perfect couple, and should tie the knot soon. Such remarks from friends are always welcomed and will slowly plant the idea of getting married and settling down with you in his head.
Weddings To Plan Your Wedding
It is a known fact that weddings turn everyone all mushy and emotional. Hardly, you can name a person who does not long to get married or remember his/her own wedding when the pianist play the wedding music and bride and groom say “I DO”. Dress beautifully and confess to him how much you also look forward to be in the bride’s shoes one day. I can bet that the whole romantic scenario is sure to bend him in marrying you at the next possible date.
All these tactics will convey your desire to finally ring the wedding bells, but always take care not to push him or corner him to tie the knot with you. Be patient and let him adjust with the upcoming changes in your relationship, he will definitely express his wish to enter into nuptial with you once he finds out that his space is not endangered.
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