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Traits to look for on your first date

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Traits to look for on your first date

January 09T00:00:00.000Z, 2014

Donna Klaus

  [caption id="attachment_5009" align="alignleft" width="300"]Traits to look for on your first date Traits to look for on your first date[/caption] A first date instantaneously gets you all excited and jittery as it may be a step forward towards your love life. The initial phase of dating often turns out to be unpredictable, or awkward or even tricky, the sole reason must be either we expect way too much from our partner or maybe we do not expect at all. So, here are certain points you need to take care of in order to glide along the much awaited date and not return rejected or deceived. Count on a man/woman who is smart and grounded. It is but obvious that every guy/girl longs for a pleasant and amiable personality in the other person when it comes to dating anyone. Qualities like confidence, assertiveness, and sheer determination are considered pristine and always appreciated both in man and women, only with the right etiquette's, a pinch of attitude, convincing body language, courteous smile, and appropriate token to greet each other.  A guy will definitely hesitate to date a delicate darling over a strong independent woman. And, women prefer a smart and self assured man rather than dating a shy or nervous guy. But, it is important to know as in where to draw the line as you do not want your politeness to be mistaken for flirting or confidence to be taken as over- smartness. Don’t let your first impression be the last impression. It will be inequitable and unethical on your part if you become judgmental and conclude abruptly about your partner on the very first day itself instead, it is suggested to be optimistic and give a second chance, as all relations do not click or connect at one go. On the D-day if your girl is not dolled up flawlessly or clad in the best dress probably unable to match your fantasy then it is absolutely frivolous and silly of you to turn away or dump her right away. Take some time out to admire her qualities and not bearing in mind her physical appearance as we believe the phrase “looks can be deceitful”.  As for the girls, do not expect a gentleman either, well suited up and to impress you in any other way. Look forward for a casual or rather an unhurried moment. A good company with a hint of playfulness is always a great combination. You might ponder over the fact and consider yourself downright fortunate if your partner turns out to be bit whimsy, flirty or even enjoys some tongue in cheek humor, as one would intend it to be a chilled out date. Often found that if one of the duos seems to be spontaneous or conversing effortlessly and casually, in some way helps the other to come out of their shell and get into his/her comfort zone thus the date positively clicks to an extent. But that necessarily doesn't mean constant mindless chatter is bearable and is not at all adorable. Being an active listener contributes too, as giving the other person a chance to express their feelings further help in good communication and is considered a perfect score on first dates. One who speaks her/his mind but not your mind!! From both a man and woman’s outlook, an uptight attitude with a stubborn mindset is a big turn off in terms of initial dates, because you never want to establish yourself as a rigid thinker, and uncompromising on all issues at the slightest pretext. To a point firm and stern believer is not always the winner of hearts and is instead less attractive to the opposite sex. It is always well appreciated if you decide for yourself but if you are the demanding type and decision maker for your partner as well, then it is inappropriate and you might seem to be dominating. It is mandatory to know where exactly to draw the line, unless you want to portray yourself as the helpless and meek one. So, gear up real fast for the date while fighting the butterflies, nervousness, and keeping the above mentioned methods in mind, after which we believe that you would have a hassle free and memorable date to be cherished forever.