7 Things Not To Tell a Woman during a Fight

It must be a wonder to the men how a woman who is dulcet can at times turn into an extremely obsessive and pugnacious. Well what men need to know is that when they rely on a person, they don’t hold back their emotions. They love like an angel and can fight like a devil if their feelings get hurt and they expect to be understood and empathized in all situations. This is the biggest riddle for men to gauge the correct emotion in correct time. Still if men want to hold on to the women they love, they must deal with the arguments cautiously…there are some protocols to be followed during a heated altercation or else the results may be extremely injurious to a man’s health. And once she gets hurt badly, even an expensive diamond ring or a diamond necklace cannot wipe out that scratch.

1. Never say “Look it’s not my fault.”

When you are being accused, it means something you did or said upset her and your attempt to shrug off the guilt does not help the existing condition rather it worsens it. Try to show that you understand her woe and apologize to her in an earnest manner. This would make her feel being pampered.

2. Don’t ever say “I don’t have time for this.”

After a stressed day she feels that she can lean on only one person and that is you. May be due to a bad day she has freaked out. If you try to be a little patient, she will realize that her reaction is not appropriate. But uttering that particular phrase will condemn you as an insensitive person who does not even care about her and forget about love.

3. “Don’t irritate…” 

For a woman questioning and then arguing when she did not get the satiable answers is pretty natural. Avoiding her is not a very good option. Though it will be a test of patience but still if you love her listen to her. Give details regarding her questions and she will understand. After some time these questions will cease. Using phrases like that will only madden her and will make her doubt you.

4. “Okay…you are right.”

If you think just uttering that phrase will extricate out of trouble…you are so wrong. It will exaggerate the argument even more. She knows that you do not feel that way and are only trying to make her quiet. It will arouse a whole lot of further allegations that you don’t want to deal with. So try a genuine attempt to listen to her and say that you did not think that way and that you are so sorry for hurting her so. You would never do that deliberately. Finish the whole argument stating how much you love her and all will be solved.

5. “You cannot change me now…”

Though it is a known fact that women love orderly things whereas men have least urging on that account. That evokes huge arguments most of the time. Women have a tendency to extend their views on others that end up as an act of imposing their ideas on men, which they find overbearing. But, stating that line will not solve the issue. So, explain her how all these were causing you difficulties but with tolerance and calm. She will understand her fault. Also may be everything she says is not wrong. Pay attention to her views and may be you will realize about some aspects of your character that when changed can make your persona even more appealing.

6. “It must be your friends…”

Do not ever blame her friends. They are her confidante. Even if you believe that she was acting weird or changed due to their influence, don’t say that. Because an adult cannot really cannot be persuaded so easily, so something must have led her to believe that they are correct. Whatever it is, a woman does not like to reckon that her partner assume her to be a pushover who can be so easily manipulated. Also, her loyalty will be questioned if she does not stand for her friends.

7. Silent treatment

This can make a matter lot worse. If you think that not saying anything will make her stop fighting. Then that is a false notion. She will then feel as if you don’t care about anything and your relationship will scatter in bits. If you pay attention you will find out the reason that is upsetting her and a small talk can sort out anything. Show her your love and trust. That will be enough to solve any kind of problem or argument.

At last, I will say there is not a single road to have a fight less relationship. But trust, attention and care can strengthen the base of your love. So listen to your girl…love her and cherish her, then may be her temper will not be a problem at all. To impress your girl, you can also gift her sparkling diamond jewelry like a promise ring or a diamond pendant or diamond earrings every now and then to make her feel special. Love is not always tangle free but if there are no ups and downs, then just imagine how insipid life will become. Sometimes fights give scope to become more intimate as it offers a chance to coerce your lover and renew the romance. So, the important secret is to love her passionately and be there for her when she needs you.